Navigating expat life comes with this its own set of joys and challenges. Each country represents a new chapter filled with a unique story line of characters, discoveries, and mystic. Are you ready to embark?
19 years ago, I started my first live abroad experience as an exchange student in Japan and it started a ripple effect in what would go on to become an invigorating lifestyle.
Although often glamorized, life outside of your own can take you through many highs and lows as you come to terms with who you are and who you are becoming.
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Cultural Adjustment: Navigating the Unknown
I used to think that coming from a melting pot, such as the United States, would automatically give me an advantage to understanding different cultures but it was just the tip of the iceberg.
If you’ve been following along with my story, then you know that it was only in 2019 that I first heard about Mauritius and was able to make the transition to living on the island as an expat in 2023. Within the first month, I was able to recognize how strong the family and community ties were on the island and how approachable many Mauritians were. This was a far cry away from the individualized society I had been raised in, where independence is often expected and praised.
Living in Pereybere, Mauritius essentially placed me conveniently in a tourism hub where many locals spoke English, were accommodating, and familiar with the needs of foreigners. Moreover, my time spent in Pereybere and the north was a bit of what I would like to refer to as a “soft landing.”
Eventually, I relocated to the center of the island where there were more locals and less tourists. Although I was able to score better housing at half the price, I also quickly realized that my surroundings suddenly weren’t as accommodating and resources were limited. I soon found myself thrown into a new cultural adjustment where I had to navigate a new unknown.
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Social Connections: Building a Support Network
When assimilating into a new culture abroad, it’s important to note that joining an expat community and forming ties with locals are of equal importance.
Other expats have the unique ability to empathize with what you may be feeling or experiencing as you get used to your new life abroad. For example, they can offer suggestions on what to do and where to go when you need access to a product that reminds you of home or even help you find a reputable and reliable tour operator that won’t price gouge.
One of my highlights in Mauritius, was when I ventured to a plant-based workshop in Tamarin which was operated by a non-profit organization called Echoshe. At the event, I was able to mingle with other expats while forming connections that gave me a sense of familiarity and relief.
Although forming community with other like-minded expats is essential, it’s important to try to make connections with the locals as well.
The language barrier was a big obstacle that I faced when I moved to the center of Mauritius and found that it was less English-friendly as French and Creole were preferred. Although English is accepted as the general official language of Mauritius, I should specify that this is mainly the case for government, parliament, and business affairs. This was a truth that I didn’t realize until I was months into living in Mauritius and living further inland.
Thankfully, I was able to make a few connections in my new town that helped point me in the direction of the best places to shop at affordable prices, how to manage the train and bus routes, how to prep for cyclones and more. Without these insider insights, it would have been very difficult for me to navigate this unfamiliar terrain that was mostly catered to locals.
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Personal Growth: Embracing Change and Challenges
Each chapter spent in a country abroad has taught me that you never return home as the same person. Moreover, the experiences, challenges, and people that you meet will all be instrumental in upgrading you into a wiser and stronger version of yourself.
Now, if we’re completely honest, change hardly feels like a stroll through a field of roses but is more like sandpaper buffing away at stubborn imperfections. However, keep in mind that extreme change often presents itself as an opportunity to turn lemons into lemonade … if you only are able to see the bigger picture.
For example, starting a YouTube channel was one of the best decisions that I made as it helped me document my highs and lows while also providing information to those considering Mauritius as their move abroad destination. I had no idea that sharing my story online would result in many people wanting to follow my story, DMing me for further guidance, and I even received requests for collaborations.
With that said, if you’re thinking of relocating overseas, it could be beneficial to find a healthy outlet such as a vlog or blog where you can write out some of your experiences, share, and reflect on your growth. You never know who you might inspire in the process!
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In Conclusion
We are living in a time when moving overseas is becoming more attractive as people of all generations are seeking new ways of living, experiences, and ultimately more bang for their buck.
My advice is to do as much research as possible before your arrival but also leave some room for the unknown.
Remember the importance of connecting with like-minded people in your new community and remember to make connections with locals so that you can have an authentic and enriching experience in your new country.
As you delve into the realities of expat life, keep in mind that every journey is unique and offers valuable lessons. Embrace the challenges, celebrate the triumphs, and consider taking the leap into the world of opportunities that await you overseas.
Sierra
